Dealing With Tantrums Tantrums, meltdowns, and hissy fits can be a nightmare for parents. in this episode of the lab, daddy clay and daddy brad tackle this important child behavior topic. since we're all about fairness ...
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Child behaviour problems: 3 year old- some symptoms sound like autism, some sound like add/adhd PLEASE anyone
plz anyone. advise of clinical experience or u are dealing with this situation PLz respond. taken him to dr. and the dr. says " he is 3" he is on state med care, cant afford to take him anywhere else. he exhibits annoying, frustrating behaviour. refuse to make eye contact when you are trying to ask him questions or talk to him about being naughty, he refuses to hold hands, he refuses to mind most anything, can not go shopping with him, he runs around like crazy, he repeats himself over and over especially if he doesnt get his way, if he doesnt get his way he freaks out, he will get into the fridge & ruin all food, not eat it but just make huge messes, this happens frequently, tried locking it up but he just finds way 2 get in, this has been happening for a year now, will go for sometimes a month w out it happening and sometimes it will happen 10 times in a week, he doesnt like sound of water running, didnt like 2 be held as infant, yells in ur face, jumps around esp when time to puti appreciate ALL answers let me go further into detail. yes i have thought about his energy level, he does well with other children he does have a 4 yr old sister as well i have thought about sibling rivalry. when seperated they both act very much calmer and more behaved, but still he sometimes will get out of bed 10 times and get spanking all times, no one in family like watching him because he is so destructive and doesnt like to mind, in time out he refuses to be still, refuses to stop talking, if you arent looking he will get out, the gettting into fridge is HUGE problem, i mean waking up a 3 am to your son in fridge with all the food poured out onto floor, this happens ALL the time, he his well feed, just have no idea what could be going on with him, thought at first it was just sibling rivalry lack of proper attention and proper discipline but now it is not getting any better doesnt talk at normal loudness, shouts, will not make eye contact, insist on his way alwaysi have not elimintated wheat, if he gets any sweets to drink it is VEERRRYY diluted like 1 part to 100 just so he can see me pour the tea pop into his cup then he is happy, eliminated alot of junk food for while that didnt really do anything yes he is obsessed with his toy cars and toy bikes he has tons tons of other toys but these are all he wants to play with anything with wheels yes especially at night he will lay with his car and just spin the wheels over and over again on his hands or the wall. for punishment often his cars get taken away and he freaks out. to the point of no consolation and just acts as if he is being murdered. he hates getting dressed most of the time too. its like if you try changing his clothes he wants to jump and bounce in your face he gets a spanking for this everytime he gets he clothes changed sometimes he will run away laughing so then i think its a game to him sometimes he absolutly refuse to allow you to change him.he does talk but it hasnt improved any over probably the last 6 months or so. he still doesnt use sentances. he'll say " brush teeth" " thirsty" he does use short phrases but not everything is clear alot of what he says a stranger would not understand.
Children behavior problem?
Recently my husbands son just turned 4 so he started head start and his behavior at school has gotten to the point where they might kick him out. My husbands son goes back and forth to his mothers house. Two days that he's with us he's good in school, the day he goes back to his mom's he acts out and then the next two days at school is worse. Wednesdays his behavior gets so bad that he'll show aggression screaming and hitting , and he'll ignore when his name is called. Sunday, Monday, Tuesday he is very friendly, loving and he listens very well. We're able to go out with him and not worry about him running off or scream at the top of his lungs. And his behavior is good Wednesday before he realizes what day it is.We've tried time outs, pretend spankings make him think he's getting a spanking but using the sound from hitting our hand, it use to work but he's probably realized he's not getting spankings now , we had a star chart for him he gets stars everyday if he's good and if he gets enough he gets a surprise , and a couple other little things.Any other suggestions on what we can try?Or any book suggestions?Before he started school we let him pick out a day during the time we had him where we ate breakfast out or at home , lunch, dinner, and snacks. Now with school he only gets to pick snacks and dinner.oh yeah my husbands son's teachers met his mom and said they weren't to thrilled about her.The mother is 23 with 4 kids from different dads. My husbands kid with her was their 1st kid, so he didn't expect what happened to him to happen. They're going through a custody fight now, husbands has primary and is going for full custody now. But with government favoring mothers it might not happen any time soon. Which is why we're trying to find ways to help him.He hates the going back and forth. The other week when he had to go back to his moms he did what ever he could to keep from getting in the car. He started screaming at the top of his lungs and grabbing onto everything he could.When he's put into time out he's there till his time is up. We also take his time away for playing the wii which he loves to play . The only time he shows he doesn't want to be with us is when his mom promises him goodies, gives him money, or tells him secrets she whispers things to him as we pull up that make him stop smiling but we don't know what she says .When we try to talk to him about anything that has to do with his mom or her side of the family he closes up and he seems scared or something. We try comforting him and we've tried many ways to find out about 'over there' but he just wont talk about it.
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